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“Play is often talked about as if it were a relief from serious learning. But for children, play is serious learning. Play is really the work of childhood.”
– Mr. Rodgers
Our friendly neighbor, Mr. Rodgers, was a very smart and insightful man. Play IS learning for children. It allows them to acquire knowledge through observing, discovering and experimenting. Through play kids learn about themselves and about life. Whether it is structured or unstructured, play allows kids to develop important academic, cognitive, social and emotional skills.
There are so many forms of play from sports to crafting to board games but in this article I want to focus on the importance of pretend and imaginary play. Ever wonder what your child gets out of pretending to be a princess, a robot, a doctor, a cook or even pretending to be YOU? Did you know that as kids pretend to cook in their play kitchen, camp in a fort in the living room or run around as super heroes, they are enhancing skills needed for healthy development? To help parents understand the importance of pretend and imaginary play, I have put together this list of benefits.
10 Benefits of Pretend and Imaginary Play
Enhances Language Development
One of the greatest benefits of engaging in play based activities is the opportunity for language development. For pretend play in particular, kids learn to verbally express their ideas and opinions through this form of story telling. They build their vocabulary of descriptive words as they explain their setting and plot. When engaging in pretend play with friends and siblings, they also develop important social communication skills such as back and forth communication and listening skills.
Sparks Creativity
As soon as your child puts on the princess dress, chef hat or doctor’s coat, they begin imagining themselves as these characters. They create their own worlds full of excitement and fun. They find creative ways to use an old cardboard box or building blocks. We often see these objects for what they are, but kids see them as a trap to catch Big Foot or tools to make a cage for T-Rex!
With this building toy, my son turned himself into a super hero!
Enhances Social Skills
When kids engage in pretend play with friends or siblings, they develop important social skills such as turn taking and sharing. They also learn teamwork and cooperation as well as listening to others and being supportive. Kids also learn they can’t always be the knight who saves the princess. Sometimes they have to play the role of the horse. Through play, kids learn they can’t always get what they want. These are all skills needed for school, sports, a career and in life!
Boosts Planning and Organizational Skills
As kids play, they often plan out their scenarios. They also organize their toys in specific ways so their imaginary world can come to life. This teaches kids to use thinking and problem solving skills as well. When my son plays, he often plans everything out before his game or story can begin. I love watching him because I can almost see the wheels turning as he plays!
This is a zoo my son planned out and organized in his room. He and his brother had a blast playing zookeeper and zoo visitors when the building was complete!
Increases Independence
When kids engage in pretend and imaginary play, they learn to create their own worlds and stories that are separate from that in which they live with their parents. They learn how to entertain themselves which leads to them being more independent individuals. Playing also helps children find out their likes and dislikes and teaches them how to make choices.
Allows for Self-Expression
Through play, kids can express their likes, dislikes, needs and wants. They can pretend to be what they want to be when they grow up or emulate their favorite super hero. When playing, kids are able to express how they feel about certain situations and circumstances in their lives. Play therapy is one the best ways to get young children to express their feelings during difficult events. Kids often feel more comfortable in the play environment than “talking something out.” So pay attention when your kids are playing! They might be trying to tell you something important!
My son often plays in his kitchen as he wants to be a chef and restaurant owner when he grows up. Play is how he lives out his dream!
Enhances Story Telling Skills
As kids engage in pretend and imaginary play, they create their own magical and unique worlds. Whether it’s their own restaurant or a far away land with dragons and knights, they are creating a story. They tell their story through play and through words. Play helps develop these story telling skills which will be needed in school and a possible career such as being an author, screen writer or ad designer.
Helps Develop Life Skills
Believe it or not but engaging in pretend play, especially role-playing, helps kids learn and develop important life skills. Not only do they learn turn taking and sharing as stated above, but they can also learn how to care for others, set a table, wash dishes and tie their shoes. When your child plays with her baby doll, she learns to be gentle and loving towards babies. When your child plays doctor, he learns the very important concept of empathy. When they play in their pretend kitchen, they learn basic cooking and cleaning concepts.
Toys such as this pretend sink teaches kids how to wash dishes which is a basic life skill.
Fosters Leadership Qualities
For many children, pretend play helps children become leaders. As I watch my son play with his brother, friends and even peers he meets in the park, I am amazed as he leads the kids in play. He often decides what game they will play and what character each person will be. Your child is not the leader? That’s a teachable moment too. When kids listen to the child in charge, they learn how to listen and follow directions. Being an effective leader AND follower is needed in school and future careers!
Teaches Social Norms
Pretend play is a wonderful way to teach children about social norms and concepts. For many children, play is how they learn how to behave in the real world. Pretend play activities such as role-playing help kids understand concepts such as how to behave at a restaurant, what to do if there is a fire or how to react if they see a stranger. It can also help lessen the anxiety for situations such as visiting the doctor, flying in a plane or going to a new school. Creating social stories like these through the use of pretend play are very beneficial for little kids as well as those with developmental delays. In fact, social stories have been found to be quite effective when working with children on the spectrum.
Pretending to be a doctor can help lessen the anxiety for some kids who have upcoming doctor’s appointments.
As you can clearly see, pretend and imaginary play have very important roles in child development. Check out this video from Genius of Play to see some pretend play in action: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLdFCfuugL_IOyEdBdIZTmEfn0nnFtPLb_
I have recently taken the Genius of Play’s Play Pledge so now it is your turn! All you have to do is pledge a specific amount of hours per week to dedicate to play. This shows that you recognize the importance of play in your child’s development. Once 1,000,000 hours have been pledged, a charitable donation to the Toy Bank will be made! Take your pledge right here!
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